Graham Payn born 25 April 1918 (d. 2005)Graham Payn was born in Pietermaritzburg in South Africa. He was a British actor and singer, gay and the life partner of the late Sir Noel Coward for thirty years.
Payn moved with his family to England when he was eleven years old (circa 1928). He became a boy soprano in concerts and in boy's choirs. He made his first stage appearance at thirteen at the Palladium, as 'Curly' in Peter Pan. At the age of fourteen he appeared in Noel Coward's revue Words and Music. Payn's audition consisted of a tap dance routine which he performed while singing 'Nearer, My God, to Thee'.
In 1945, Coward wrote a leading role in Sigh No More specifically for Payn.
Payn appeared nearly continuously in the West End for the next twenty years of his life. He appeared on Broadway in Coward's Tonight at 8:30, and in films including The Italian Job.Payn died at the couple's home in Switzerland, aged 87 on 4 November 2005.
After Coward's death in 1973, with Sheridan Morley and Cole Lesley, Payn wrote Noel Coward and His Friends (1979) and was one of the editors of The Noel Coward Diaries that he dedicated to Lesley. Graham Payn wrote his own autobiography in 1994.